A divorce can be devastating to the spouse who didn't see it coming. In your case, it was you. You thought your spouse seemed to be drifting lately, but you believed they were tired from work. Now, you're aware that they've been staying late to visit their lawyers' offices and to make sure they're prepared for the divorce ahead of you.
With any child custody case, it's everyone's job to make sure the child or children are put first. Their lives rely on the decisions of the adults around them.
With prenuptial agreements, there are some things you can and cannot do. One of the things you're unable to do is to include your child's custody plan ahead of time.
It is empowering to know that your divorce is going as expected, or, at the very least, in a positive manner. You want to know that you won't have to worry about child custody issues in the future and that your financial stability will be intact after all is said and done.